Amy Lyles Wilson is a spiritual writer in Nashville whose work has appeared on National Public Radio. She has more than twenty years of experience in publishing. She is the acquisitions editor for Fresh Air Books, an imprint of Upper Room Books. She received her bachelor’s degree in English from Millsaps College and her master’s degree in journalism from the University of Mississippi. In 2003, she served as the writing fellow at the Earlham School of Religion.

In May 2007, Wilson was graduated from Vanderbilt University Divinity School with a master’s degree in theological studies. In addition to her work with Fresh Air Books, she is a columnist and blogger for Her Nashvillemagazine, and leads writing workshops for women as an affiliate of Amherst Writers and Artists.

Her essay “The Guts to Keep Going” was featured on National Public Radio’s “This I Believe” and is included in the second published collection of essays from the series.

 

 


 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

Wednesday
01Jul

Latest "Her Spirit" Blog Post: "Deliver Me"

Jun 30 Posted Tuesday, June 30th 2009 at 6:06pm Tagged:  

Please, if you can, expand your definition of "spirit"  to include a sense of humor, perhaps, or resilience, for this blog post. I simply must share my humiliation with someone, and my husband is on a plane halfway to DC and my best friend is in a meeting.

I try to visit my 87-year-old mother in Mississippi every six weeks. I'm with her now at the retirement community where she lives. As I was walking down the hall this afternoon, on my way to run an errand, an elderly woman stopped me to introduce herself. 

"Nice to meet you," I replied. 

And then she said--wait for it--"Are you new here?"

For the record, I'll be 48 in August. As in not yet 50. Maybe letting my hair go grey is not my best option after all. 

There. I feel better already...

http://hernashville.com/blogs/her-spirit/deliver-me-063009

Friday
26Jun

Writing Quote of the Week

"It's the freedom we're after in our writing," Pat Schneider, founder of Amherst Writers and Artists and mentor extraordinaire. 

Monday
22Jun

Change Your Writing (Method), Change Your Life

This week I'm blessed--there is no other word--to be writing with Pat Schneider, founder of Amherst Writers & Artists (AWA), in North Carolina. This workshop method is positive and helfpul, not critical and depressing. With AWA, you want to write more, write more clearly. You are not tempted, even if you are not happy with your first draft, to go out back and end it all. It is not melodramatic to say AWA has changed my life. Check the "Links" page of this site if you want to know more, and I'll be posting from Winston-Salem all week.

Tuesday
16Jun

Shouldn't We Learn to Spell First?

Really, I'm all for warning folks about the dangers of drinking and driving.

But maybe we should learn to spell first?

Sunday
14Jun

Precious Plants a Garden

It’s summer, and Maybelle knows this because the birds are singing louder and the temperature is getting warmer. Because she’ll be turning on the air conditioning soon and fighting off mosquitoes during her early evening walks. But her surest indication of the arrival of summer is the increased traffic at her front door: UPS, FedEx, take your pick.

“This is the one,” said Maybelle’s husband, Precious, as he ran to sign for yet another package one recent afternoon. “I’ve done my research and I’m convinced this particular planter system will yield a richer crop of vegetables than last year’s with regard to ratio of time invested divided by seeds planted and water distributed.” There is more he could say on the subject—take Maybelle’s word on this—but he was so excited about his new contraption that he dashed toward the deck to break open the box before she could sprinkle him with such questions as, “Honey, what about the planter from last year?” and “Sweetpea, how about the newfangled hydroponics thingamajig you bought the year before that?” (Because their house does not have a backyard to speak of, Precious is limited to what he can grow—or attempt to grow—in pots on the deck.)

“Trust me,” he shouted through the screen door as if he had read Maybelle’s mind. “This year will be different.” His eyes were gleaming almost instantly, brimming over with visions of juicy tomatoes and firm squash, leafy spinach and tasty peppers. All this before he’d even ripped into his bags of mushroom-infused mulch and nutrient-enhanced potting soil stacked in the carport. There is an upside to her husband’s summertime fascination with manure, however, because it reminds Maybelle of her father, and she means that in the nicest way.

Maybelle’s daddy, who died in 2000, also loved to garden. His carefully tended rows in the farthest reaches of the backyard might yield cucumbers and tomatoes one year, lettuce and zinnias the next. Always there were roses. Sunflowers made a rare appearance one season, and Maybelle has vivid memories of a lot of corn: fried corn, creamed corn, corn blended into batter for cornbread, corn on the cob (buttered and nestled in a piece of white bread, her personal favorite).

The planning started early for Maybelle’s dad, as soon as the gardening catalogs began arriving during the winter months. He’d pore over them and dog-ear the pages that tempted him with exotic hybrids or increased yields. Soon enough, as February melted into March, deliveries from Jackson and Perkins, Wayside Gardens, and White Flower Farm—just to name a few—would begin to arrive.

Now Maybelle spends her winter evenings with a different man, another eager gardener who routinely orders more plants and seeds and related paraphernalia than he actually needs. (Maybelle has a few more purses than she actually needs, though, so she and Precious have adopted a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy concerning gardening and shopping.) And this summer is no different from the other five they have spent together as husband and wife.

Apparently the newly arrived “sure fire” system was somewhat difficult to assemble, for soon after Precious opened the box labeled “Get Growing Now!,” Maybelle was assaulted by pounding noises.

“Okay,” he said, a bit of sweat hovering between his eyebrows when she went outside to make sure he wasn’t bleeding. “I think I’ve got it figured out now. The instructions didn’t include any pictures—can you believe that?—and they must have left out a few steps, because this thing was tricky to put together. But I just know we won’t be the least bit tempted to drive down to the Farmer’s Market this year. Trust me.”

Maybelle has heard it said that daughters marry their fathers. She did not, although she can say without question that she loves those two men like no other. Despite their differences, they share a few commonalities, not the least of which might be their appreciation of dirt, and their love of Maybelle.

Copyright Amy Lyles Wilson; first posted on my now defunct blog, Maybelle at Midlife